books44 Chapter 467 The Correct Way of Persuasion
Chapter 467 The Correct Way of Persuasion
Chapter 467 The Correct Way of Persuasion
Moreover, there is a big problem with doing so.
That is, if you are not recognized by most members of the gang, then the behavior of usurping the position of the former boss into your hands is no different from that of a second-five boy.
It is a traitor.
And everyone understands.
What do gangsters hate the most?
Not a superhero.
Not the police either.
But a traitor.
They do this business, because they have to do a lot of shameful things and can't use legal documents to restrain their behavior at all. If something goes wrong, they can only be solved by gang methods, so they are extremely disgusted with betrayers.
After all, a small gang member who becomes a traitor can betray many key secrets.
This will directly affect the development of many activities of the gang, and even lead to the capture and killing of gang members.
Therefore, when dealing with traitors, the rules of the gang are surprisingly unified.
That is, shoot to kill.
Even a wanted warrant will be issued.Those who kill traitors will be rewarded heavily.
Some gangs are friendly gangs.
Therefore, some wanted orders are not just rewards within the gang.
It's still cross gang.
Especially when Nian Jin ruled the New York gangs, it was the most terrifying.
The gangsters at that time were the most honest under the control of Jin Bing.
But for those who are wanted by gangsters, it is the most terrifying.
Because, at the beginning, the arrest warrant was uniformly applicable in all New York, and even in the areas controlled by the gold merger forces in the United States.
Once you are wanted, any gang will want to kill you, how will you live?
It might be better to hang it in the morning.
However, as a person who has studied forensic knowledge, He Nan still recommends those who have the conditions to swallow the gun.
The reason is that this quick death will not cause any pain if it penetrates the brainstem in an instant.
Given the speed of the bullet, you may not feel any pain before your eyes go dark and you don't realize anything.
Instant death is the best relief.
Hanging himself was quite painful.After all, that is the feeling of lack of oxygen.
As for cutting the wrist, He Nan felt that the person who could die like this must have cut it vertically along the main artery, or he had hemophilia and couldn't stop the bleeding.
Because the wound on the wrist is not enough to see.
Don't underestimate the blood clotting ability of the human body.
The platelets quickly begin to clot the incision.Even if you cut the wrist artery is the same.
I don't know why I always see the plot of suicide by cutting the wrist.
Even after cutting the wrist and soaking it in cold water, it would be very difficult to die.
Therefore, most people who commit suicide like this still don't want to die and can be persuaded to come back.
Or, in fact, there is no need to persuade.
You send him to the hospital for emergency treatment, and when you wake up, you will know that you are afraid.Then start to realize how beautiful life is and how stupid it is to commit suicide.
He Nan always felt that suicide was stupid.
Unless the person has a mental illness such as depression and can't help but have such negative ideas, all suicidal thoughts are usually just temporary depression and impulsiveness, and they are extremely sad.
It's not a big problem, just take it easy.The saying that it is better to die than to live is not for nothing.
What's more, suicide can't be considered a good death.
…Unless you have been issued a gangster arrest warrant or something, you really can’t live anymore, and you feel that being caught by them will only be worse.
In this case, it is reasonable to consider quickly hanging up and starting the next game.
As a detective, He Nan has seen too many cases that collapsed the families of the victims and other relevant people.
These people even committed suicide in front of He Nan, or they were about to commit suicide several times.
They were all stopped by him, the main reason is probably because they were just impulsive, how could they think carefully about whether they didn't want to live after calming down.
Given that they were all thinking about it after being rescued by He Nan, that was obvious.
Impulse can really kill people.
What's so good about being dead, you don't play games or watch dramas anymore?
But no one clearly stated that there are still these things in the world after death. If you haven’t played enough, go home and play for a while. You can’t do anything after you die.
As for how He Nan persuaded him?
In fact, because the people he persuaded were not determined to die, the difficulty was not high, and there was no need for professional psychological counselors to intervene.
And he is not a Christian, so he will not use the Christian saying that "you cannot go to heaven by suicide" to persuade people not to commit suicide.
Unless, the other party is also a Christian.
This is actually a big pit.
Some Americans have an arrogant way of thinking. They believe in Christianity and think that everyone should believe in it. They think that anyone will accept their theory.
Therefore, when faced with a person who is about to commit suicide, he keeps "kindly" persuading him not to commit suicide. If he commits suicide, he will not go to heaven, but will suffer in hell.
As a result, the other party doesn’t believe in Christianity at all, or is just a general believer who believes casually because of cultural habits. The more you hear this, the more angry you become, and the result is that he commits suicide on impulse.
Because you have a lot of BBs with him who thinks he is kind, but in fact they are all things that he doesn't care about at all.Persuading others with things they don't care about, and cursing him that he will be miserable if he doesn't listen to you, will easily arouse other people's resentment and anger.
Of course, if you think saying this will make him so angry that he will give up suicide and hit you, it's fine, but at present, it seems that the success rate is infinitely close to zero.
He Nan has an advantage in this respect.
He didn't believe in Christianity at first, but because he studied in a Christian charity school when he was a child, the required courses included the Bible and various Christian-related courses, and he also participated in worship and prayer together, so he knew a lot about Christianity.
He knew exactly how best to exhort a devout Christian who was about to commit suicide.
If you tell him a lot, it is better to just persuade him, "If you commit suicide, you will not be able to go to heaven, and you will not be able to be with the Lord. Even so, do you still want to commit suicide?".
Yes, in fact, truly devout Christians know that suicide does not actually go to hell.
But the gates of heaven are also closed to you.
The afterlife you arrive at is just a "place without a Lord".To a person who doesn't believe in God, this is a fart, but to a devout Christian, this is much more uncomfortable than killing him.
You can also quote some chapters of the original text of the Bible with him, and persuade him to give up the idea of suicide and live strong.
For example: Human life is not easy to come by. The Bible says that the creation of man is wonderful and awesome. Man was created in secret and was connected in the depths of the earth. (Psalm 139:14-15)
As soon as he said this, he immediately understood, which is infinitely more useful than if you persuaded him that he would not be able to realize his ideals after death, and how sad your family would be if you think about it.
One might think that devout Christians don't kill themselves at all.
But in fact, it is not necessarily true. Some people have been hit so hard that they can't take their beliefs into account at all.You may even question why God allowed yourself to suffer such a thing, and lose your mind in anger.
(End of this chapter)