books44 Chapter 440 Mother and Daughter Talk
Chapter 440 Mother and Daughter Talk
"I have heard before that Prince Yun is also a brave and skilled fighter on the battlefield. Now that the Three Kingdoms are in a three-way confrontation, the countries are also
There is a high possibility that you will go to the battlefield again. You will stay in Kyoto alone in the future. Life in the harem will be very boring. Also, your growth environment is different from that of ordinary women, and Prince Yun has a noble status. If you have another woman by your side in the future, I will not bear to see you sad because of this."
"Mom!" Shu Xiaoxiao felt uncomfortable seeing her mother like this.
Parents who love their children will plan for them in the long run. Although she did not grow up with Ye Xue Ning, her family never ignored her. Every year, the things sent to Qinglian Village were so many that even Grandpa Ye said the house could hardly hold them all.
She took the initiative to dress up as a man and return to Kyoto, and even went to the academy. Ye Xue Ning did not criticize her at all, but just tried her best to cover it up. Now she said this out of genuine concern for her, without any selfish motives. The feelings between people are mutual. Even if Shu Xiaoxiao still missed modern parents, she had long treated Ye Xue Ning as her biological mother.
Ye Xue Ning looked at her daughter who wanted to speak, patted her head, and continued: "As for a man's promise, just listen to it. If you take it seriously, you will be the only one who loses. A temporary promise is easy to fulfill, but a lifetime promise is too difficult to uphold, especially when it comes to love between men and women. A man's promise is even more worthless. Even your father, don't think we are happy now, we have experienced many twists and turns before, and even your father is away all year round, which is also a big reason. If your father had always been in this prosperous Kyoto, I can't guarantee when he would have a few beautiful ladies around him?"
"So after you get married, you must remember that you can love and have affection for your husband, but you must protect your own heart."
Being a couple for life is beautiful, but how many vows will eventually be defeated by time or later accidents? Although she and her husband can be considered a couple for life, they are separated for a long time, and the pain they go through is unknown to outsiders.
Perhaps it was because her daughter's experience was different from that of ordinary people. She hoped that her daughter could live a better life and have a more perfect marriage in the future. But if Prince Yun changed his mind in the future, with her daughter's abilities, she could also have a better future.
Shu Xiaoxiao agreed very much with what Ye Xue Ning said. She also just listened to the saying "one couple for a lifetime". Modern monogamy could not stop men from having mistresses, let alone the ancient times when men had three wives and four concubines. Unless the family was so poor that they could not even afford food, how many people could resist the temptation of beauty?
Shu Xiaoxiao is a modern person and considers herself to be knowledgeable. If nothing else, she can definitely be said to have seen the world in ancient times. Faced with some beauties, women may not be unmoved, so why should they demand that from men?
She remembered watching TV before, a character said that it is a man's nature to be greedy for money and lustful. Greedy for money means he is ambitious, and lustful means he has a normal aesthetic taste. So you see, it is all nature, what else can you ask for? Not to mention being entangled in these things.
In modern times, she almost became depressed because she didn't meet the right person and was urged to get married. She even had thoughts of suicide. Now that she has found the right person, why not give it a try?
She is now more successful than her modern self. She has a good family background, a title she has worked hard for, and the abilities needed in this era. So what's the big deal in giving it a try? If she lives a good life in the future, that's the best. If not, she also has a way out.
Shu Xiaoxiao slowly nestled in Ye Xue Ning's arms and said slowly: "Mom, I understand what you mean, but I am not a pushover. I am not a girl who grew up reading books like "Female Commandments", "Female Training", and "Inner Training". I don't know what it means to regard my husband as the heaven and my husband as the guide of my wife. I read the Four Books and Five Classics, history books, mathematics and other books like them, and learn the same things as them. I don't know what it means to regard my husband as the heaven, but I know how to make my life better. I know that no matter how great the benefits and dignity are, it is not as important as my happiness.
And mother, look, there are only a few people in the academy who have achieved such success at such a young age as me, so mother, I am no worse than those men, and no matter what happens in the future, I will live a good life. "
"Also, didn't Big Brother just say that the Emperor still retains my title of Marquis Yongle, so Mother doesn't have to worry anymore. If Senior Brother Yun takes a concubine in the future, Marquis Yongle can also keep a male favorite. At worst, we can just live our own lives, and I won't suffer any loss. After all, who says that only men can be lustful?"
Shu Xiaoxiao said it with confidence. After all, beauty is not gender-specific. Who says that only men can be lustful? Women also like beauty, but they need to be reserved in normal times so it is not so obvious.
Moreover, at any time, no matter whether a woman or a man is not love-brained, they can live a good life even if they break up or divorce.
Ye Xuening:..............
"That doesn't have to be the case."
She just wanted her daughter not to focus all her attention on Master Yun, and at least learn to love herself. However, her daughter had already planned everything for her future male favorites, which was more proactive than her. It seemed that she didn't have to worry about Master Yun betraying her daughter in the future. Instead, she was worried that her daughter would be seduced by other beauties, which would be bad.
After all, she was a mother, so she had some understanding of her daughter's hobbies. She preferred good-looking people, regardless of gender, and her eyes lit up when she saw the singing and dancing of the women in brothels and the Jiaofang Bureau, as well as the sword dancing of good-looking men...
Could it be that because she has been with those men for too long, the girl has picked up their bad habits? Ye Xue Ning was a little suspicious.
As the saying goes, "Birds of a feather flock together." This possibility is too great. Besides, my daughter does not have the self-control that Prince Yun has. No matter how you look at it, she is not someone who would allow herself to be wronged.
From this perspective, we should be worried about Prince Yun.
Ye Xue Ning looked at her daughter suspiciously, and her previous worries basically disappeared. She said earnestly: "Xiao Xiao, this marriage is not a joke. Since you have decided to be with Prince Yun, you must manage your family well. If there is anything, you should discuss it more. Don't just think about yourself. You must support each other to go further. Besides, Prince Yun is also handsome and unparalleled. There are few men in Kyoto who can be compared with him. After marriage, you can't do anything reckless!"
Shu Xiaoxiao nodded, looking serious: "Hey, Mom, don't worry, I know."
Ye Xue Ning frowned, thought for a moment, and then said, "Tell me about how you usually get along with each other, and how you solve the problem of food and lodging when you go out on the road, especially when it's just you and Prince Yun on the road."
Shu Xiaoxiao blinked: "It's just like usual, at most a little more considerate than my third brother."
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